woman’s best friend
Love/relationship advice for girls who complain about their boy friend/husband!
There is nothing wrong with you to hope that your boy behaves the way you want. But you need to know “Boys never behave!!”
Think this way: Boys are just like puppy dogs! So treat him like a little cute cuddly dog. What you need to be with a dog/boy are patience and generosity. What do you do when you get a puppy? You feed him, enjoy playing with him, discipline him, and give him unconditional love. I know I know it’s hard to look at this way because puppies are cuter than your boy.
Anyway, let me explain how boys are similar to dogs.
1. Poor listening skill. Science tells us that boys’ brains don’t equip to hear what girls are saying as if puppy dogs don’t know human language. They don’t understand 100% what you are saying, but they do feel what you are saying. So how you say it matters.
2. Love toys. TV, sports, movies, music, games, porn, car, gym, whatever. These are toys for them. Let him have fun with toys. But if your dog/boy obsesses with the toy, call a professional trainer.
3. Love to be fed. The proverb “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” still works most of the time.
4. Love to receive a reward. When your dog learns a new trick, you reward him by petting and a treat. So when your boy did something good, give him a reward! Sex, food, beer, whatever he likes! It is positive reinforcement. He’ll do something good again.
5. Unable to stop noticing other creatures. Most of dogs notice and react to dogs/mice/squirrels/birds. Some dogs want to chase them so bad and bark a lot. It’s just their nature. Human boys are the same. Boys do check out other girls with no reason. It’s just their nature. Just pull his leash and get his attention back to you.
Be a good dog handler, girls! You know, his loyalty enhances your life!
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Looking back at 2011
at the end of 2011.
I’m so graceful that I’ve survived through this year…another tough economy year! This slow time really freaked me out, but at least I didn’t starve to death! (I gained my weight instead) I didn’t get ill, I didn’t have any funerals to attend, and I didn’t lose my assets! Well, I didn’t have a spectacular vacation, though. In my photography, I didn’t do any shows and publication, but I got some awards. I didn’t mean to sift through my friends, but good friends remained or returned, and some were just gone. I met many interesting people, and some of them became my friends. I think I’m pretty blessed!
I think Japan’s earth quake and tsunami made the biggest impact on me this year. I was not there, but it shook my head big time! I’ve totally changed the way look at my home country and the world.
I’d like to thank you all for your supports, help, compliments, smiles, inspiration, and gifts! Hope you have Happy New Year!
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Love the way you lie
April 11th 2011
The issue of the crippled nuclear power plant in Japan still bothers me. We don’t know what the truth is. Japan has been a victim for a while, and they got so much sympathy and supports from all over the world. But since the nuclear power plant problems was on news, they are like a leaper in the world. After the radioactive dumping in the ocean, they are called murderers! No one doesn’t want any foods from Japan. No one doesn’t want to go there. Guess what? It’s all because of TEPCO and government that haven’t told the truth about nukes since the beginning of nukes in Japan. They have been saying nukes are “safe, clean, and cheap” for 60 years, and still saying it! Duh! Really? The funny thing is some info about the crippled nuke I can get here in the US can’t be broadcasted and published in Japan! Media have been manipulated by government. People have been manipulated by media. So people can feel better, and continue their lives. After all “ignorance is bliss”?
Not all are ignorance. Many Japanese have been questioning the existence of nukes in Japan. Others call for alternate power supply. Or, blaming TEPCO, exposing the company’s stupidity, protesting, a signature-collecting campaign, blaming government, and so on. For the record, ironically, the nuclear power supply has played a great part of Japan’s economic growth and high standard living. They might need it, but they don’t want it. They don’t want it, but they want to keep the comfortable and convenient life style that requires a lot of electricity. Their love/hate relationship will continue….
Perhaps for this reason, “Love the way you lie” by Eminem featuring Rihanna hit my head. (assume everyone knows the song)
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
but that’s all right because I like the way it hurts
just gonna stand there and hear me cry
but that’s all right because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie
